There are 3 things both you and I as believers should be pursuing. They are the Word, the Spirit and the Glory. The spirit gives life. We should stop thinking carnally and start thinking spiritually and let the spirit control our mind according to Romans 8:6, which reads "So letting the your sinful nature control your mind leads to death. When we sin, it's like a tornado that effects the people around us and we start to become separated from God.
When we let the Spirit control our mind, it will lead to life and peace. I know you want to live in peace. To live in peace it is imperative that you get your mind renewed. Having peace starts with having peace with God. We must stay far away as we can from sin. For us to stay away from sin, we need the power of Christ in us. We need to ask the Father: "Is there something that I am doing that is not right?" But the good thing is that Jesus will love us NO MATTER WHAT. He loves the sinner, but doesn't love the sin. He wants us to protect us, He is our Father. He wants to demonstrate His love. So let's us join together this day and partnership with God- by us doing that, it guarantees us the very best!